Middle School Doesn't Have To Be Miserable.
Are you tired of repeating yourself, feeling frustrated, and then raising your voice, okay, yelling, just to get through to your tween?
In a noisy and busy world, it can be hard to connect on a deeper level.
With decades of experience guiding parents and tweens in real-life settings—not just an office—I’ve created a proven character-building process.
 Let's do middle school together.
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Feeling overwhelmed with everything on your plate?
Parenting doesn’t wait for a perfect time, and neither should your support. Get the help you need when it works for you.
Pick what works best for you. No pressure to do it all.Â
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IMAGINE THIS...
It’s a typical evening, and the house is buzzing with activity. Your daughter sits at the kitchen table, studying for a difficult test. Suddenly, she realizes she’s forgotten about an assignment due tomorrow. Instead of panicking, she takes a moment to breathe deeply, calm her racing heart, and refocus. She asks for your help to create a plan, and you both work together to tackle the challenge.
You’re amazed at her ability to find calm in the chaos and grateful that she’s learning how to manage stress in a healthy way.
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Identify the personal challenge.
Every parent-tween needs individual support.
Get expert and practical strategies.
Every mom gets expert guidance and high-value resources, designed to easily fit into even the busiest of schedules.
We create a personalized plan for you.
The membership offers a clear, customizable roadmap with step-by-step strategies moms can adapt for lasting success.
Dana, Mom of Two Girls
“I didn’t realize how much my daughter could be taught to do things for herself, including thinking, and how much confidence that gives her. I am behind, but Nik helps you where you are and we have grown so much already.”
IMAGINE THIS...
One day, your daughter tells you she’s decided to spend less time with a group of friends who were causing unnecessary drama. She explains how she wants to surround herself with people who lift her up and respect her boundaries. As she speaks, you hear wisdom and self-respect far beyond her years.
You feel a sense of relief and happiness, knowing she values herself enough to choose friends who genuinely care for her and that she’s not afraid to walk away from unhealthy relationships.
JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP TODAY!You Get The Course: Ditch The Drama
In 13 lessons, you and your tween will learn to manage yourselves and interact well with others. We start by understanding middle school, then move on to managing emotions, using logic, communicating and holding boundaries, recognizing conflict and bullying, and navigating drama.
The Accelerator and Elite Programs Receive The Library Resources
The Library ResourcesÂ
I am updating and adding made-for-you resources for "just-in-time" learning. Â
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You or your tween are struggling with an issue in their growth. We discuss and I create for you a process that leads your child without lecturing. This resource goes in the resource area for other moms.
You and your tween learn.
My expertise is tailored for you.


“Life doesn’t slow down for parenting. That’s why this membership fits into your life on your terms. Together we can build the help and foundation you and your tween needs to thrive when stakes are low, so high school becomes a time of practice.
~Nik Bowers, M. Ed.
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What Parents Are Saying...

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I am a completely different parent than I was 8 months ago. I am more confident and I trust my process and my daughter's.
- Mom of TWO daughters

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There isn't anything like this around. Our home is completely different now and it wasn't as hard as I thought. Knowing Nik is there, gives you confidence.
-Mom of 12-year-old

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I took my time through her course and it is wonderful. Having her support is even better. She knows, understands, and gives.
-Mom of 10-year-old
IMAGINE THIS...
One evening, your daughter approaches you with a dilemma: she’s being invited to a big party, but something about it makes her uncomfortable. Instead of sneaking out or lying, she trusts you enough to talk through her feelings. You both discuss options, and she decides on a choice that aligns with her values. Before heading to bed, she hugs you and says, “Thanks for always being here for me, Mom.”
You feel a deep sense of connection, knowing your relationship has become a true partnership based on trust, open communication, and mutual respect.
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