For moms of 9–12 year olds who feel the shift happening… this is for you. WATCH NOW.

She looks confident on the outside.

But inside? She’s overwhelmed, confused, and trying to hold it together… just like you.

4th–6th grade is the slow climb.
7th grade is the drop.
Most moms don’t realize the window to prepare is right now.

That’s why I created the Beautiful Mess Journal.

Not a workbook. A bridge.

A way to talk when talking feels impossible.
A place for moms and daughters to write when emotions get loud.

Writing gives her the words.
Speaking builds her courage.

And when middle school hits hard, she’ll have something solid to return to.

You’re not losing her. You’re both just growing.

Messy. Beautiful. Together.

Finally—Solutions to the Worries You’ve Been Silently Carrying

BIG feelings.. Friendships. Attitude. 
Here’s where it all starts to make sense.

Ready for solutions? They’re right below.⬇️

It only takes one rumor to break her her or build her resilience.

When drama hits, she doesn’t need rescuing, she needs skills.
This one-hour workshop shows you how to help her think, feel, and rebuild confidence through the chaos.

The framework will be used until she goes to college.

The eye-rolls, attitude, and tension aren’t the end of your relationship... it is an opportunity.

Does your tween KNOW what respect means?

Sit down together for one guided reset that rebuilds trust and sets new standards for respect at home.
No yelling. No power struggle. Just change.

You’re stressing about grades and friends but the real work is emotional management and logic.

Learn how to teach emotional control, decision-making, and problem-solving so she can handle life’s big feelings with grace and grit.

Because she can’t understand others until she understands herself.

You don’t need more information, you need consistency and a sounding board.

The membership gives you monthly coaching & live calls for both of you, and a supportive tribe that keeps you growing long after the workshop ends.

Join the hundreds of moms changing their relationships and growing themselves.

Your Leader, Nik Bowers, M.Ed. 

Life with tweens is messy, loud, and beautiful and harder than ever to navigate.

I’ve spent over twenty years in schools and homes, helping families through the ups and downs of adolescence.

The moms and daughters who go through this work come out stronger, calmer, and more confident in who they are because I’ve lived it from every direction and I know how to help you do the same.